Ok, seriously. On the matter of tattoos - it is nice to see. It's a very personal thing to the lady in question and that adds to the fun of exploring her. Is it a specific turn on for me? No, it is not a "make or break" thing on its own.
On the matter of CS scars - again, it adds to the lady's features and adds to the fun. Is it a fetish for me - no Is it a turn off - definitely not.
Anyway. Perhaps some of that made sense? I read it again and it sorta did but also sorta didn't. I'm not smart enough to figure out what to do with it!
I thought I would add another male perspective. I have always found those scars sexy to a great degree. Been with several ladies, and most appreciated their birth marks, as I would explain to them. Wheb being with a woman for the first time, who has one of these scars, or any scar, I do not ignore it, nor do I ask about it. I compliment her body for the work of nature art it is, and make sure to pay attention that that area in foreplay and complimenting it. Always letting them know, it is part of them, and loving all of them, means the scar as well. To me, it is not something that should be hidden , it should be celebrated. Having a tattoo over it, might actually draw attention to that area as well. In the end, you need to do what will make you feel better about your body image, and if covering that you should, and have every right too. Or you could not and wear the scar proudly as a product of doing the greatest thing a human can do giving birth. My first wife, called them her medals ( she had 4 kids before I met her, and because of different docs, 2 and parts of a third different scar. You seem like a great gal, am sure you will know what is best for who you are and do accordingly.
I think hidden tattoos are super sexy but I would worry it would really hurt or not heal so well over scar tissue. I wanted my arm that has scars to be covered up in tattoos but the artist told me they didn’t tattoo over scar tissue.
Holly wrote:I think hidden tattoos are super sexy but I would worry it would really hurt or not heal so well over scar tissue. I wanted my arm that has scars to be covered up in tattoos but the artist told me they didn’t tattoo over scar tissue.
They don't stay as well as most think but there are artist who will "cover". basically they make a design of sorts to hid it more then it is or to make it pop. so many cute/sexy ideas for them. I personally have a scar from emergency surgery but will not be doing anything with or about it because of the location. I do get asked a lot about it on here because people think it was a C-section. so I tell them the truth if they don't read my Q&A's but no one has asked if I would change it or do anything to it. so my personal answer is if you think it will work for you then great if not then that's great too.
I also have a total of 7 tattoos and want more. I do have one that just needs names added to it but its on hold right now.
Tattoos are definitely a very personal thing. I have many tattoos and love all of them but I have not covered any of my many scars. No real reason for me, I just haven't so far thought my 3 newest scars on my back I do not love, I just don't think a tattoo big enough to cover them would look right on me.
Personally I would not have a tattoo, as it happens I had a baby a year ago with an emergency C-section, but dont really notice the scar, then again I am a bit larger now
Is it a turn off - definitely not.
