Myself, I love the occasional bondage. Still, what I like best about Southern Charms is variety. The same theme repeated over and over again gets boring. That is the problem I have with the bondage only sites, and most other sites for that matter.
In my opinion bondage can go from light play to a scene from a horror movie, but always stopping short of a Last Temptation kind of thing. It is a roller coaster kind of ride. You want to be scared, but you don't want to be actually thrown off the track into oblivion. There is noting sexy about true pain, only in the potential never the implementation. Like, Hitchcock never showed any blood or gore, but what he didn't show made it intense. If that makes any sense.
Anyway, I love the saddle photo.
